Creating Your Own Circle: Embracing Your Role in Life

Apr 06, 2025

Hello friend,

Have you ever thought about the circle of life? In nature, everything has its place: lions hunt to survive, birds soar through the sky, and fish glide in the sea. Each creature plays a role, and the world keeps turning because of these interconnected cycles. These circles of life are both beautiful and necessary for the balance of the world. And while it’s easy to feel like we’ve been thrown off course after experiencing trauma, we are still part of this circle, and we can create a new circle for ourselves—one that reflects our strength, resilience, and growth.

The Importance of Every Role in the Circle

Think about the lion in the wild. It may face challenges, yet it keeps fighting because it has a role to fulfill. Birds navigate the skies, often facing storms, yet they are always seeking new heights. Fish swim through the currents, sometimes struggling against the flow, but they know their place in the ocean is vital. Each creature has its place in the great cycle of life—and so do you.

You’ve made it this far, and that is no small feat. There were days when you might have wondered if you would survive, but here you are, part of your own circle—surviving and thriving. Just like the creatures of the wild, you too have a role, and it’s still unfolding. Despite the challenges you’ve faced, despite the brokenness, you are part of something much greater. And now, it’s time for you to define your own role in your new circle.

Survival is Your Strength

The pain and trauma you’ve experienced doesn’t define you—it’s what you’ve done after that makes you who you are today. You’ve survived, and each day you keep going, you add another layer to your strength. Think of your survival as a piece of the puzzle in the larger circle of life. Your experience, however painful, has made you wiser, more compassionate, and more aware of the world around you.

You are no longer just a casualty of the broken circles you were once part of. You are the creator of your own circle. This is the beauty of life—you can always redefine your path, your purpose, and your role, no matter where you’ve been.

Creating Your New Circle: Defining Your Role

So how do we create a new circle for ourselves? It starts with acknowledging that you have value, your journey matters, and you are worthy of a space in the circle. It’s not about denying the past, but rather embracing the fact that you are still here, and you can create something new for yourself.

Here are some ways to define your new circle:

1. Reflect on your strengths. Take a moment to think about what has helped you survive up until now. Maybe it’s your ability to keep going, your courage to speak out, or the love you have for others. Whatever it is, it’s a vital part of your new circle.

2. Look for the lessons in your experiences. It’s okay to acknowledge that the past was painful, but also think about the wisdom it has given you. These lessons will help shape the new circle you’re building.

3. Decide what role you want to play now. In the old circle, maybe you were a passive observer or someone who was hurt. But now, you can choose to be an inspirational leader, a healer, a teacher, a guide, or a friend—whatever resonates with you.

4. Find your community. Just like in nature, the circle is stronger when it’s supported by others. Surround yourself with people who uplift you, whether it’s a friend, a mentor, or a support group. You are not alone.

5. Give yourself grace. Just as nature allows flowers to bloom in their own time, allow yourself the space to grow at your own pace. There’s no timeline for healing.

You Have the Power to Create a New Circle

Just as the lion roars in the wild, the bird soars in the sky, and the fish swims through the water, you have the power to shape your own path. Your past does not have to determine the shape of your future. In fact, your survival itself is a testimony to your strength, and now it’s time to honor that strength by creating a new circle that reflects your journey, your healing, and your growth.

The circle of life is ongoing, and so is your healing. It’s never too late to begin anew, to redefine your role, and to embrace the power of your survival. You are not defined by your trauma—you are defined by your resilience, your courage, and your ability to rise.

Final Thoughts:

Remember, no matter where you’ve been or what you’ve been through, you’re still part of the circle. And now, you get to decide what role you play. Just like the creatures of the earth, your role is vital, and it’s beautiful in its own right.

Let’s create new circles—filled with strength, love, and possibility. You are worthy, you are enough, and your journey has only just begun.

With love and encouragement,

Kathe'rine